Our brain continuously seeks for the connection between cause and effect. So any time someone acts like victim and say that someone has done something to them and they are a victim and also they believe they are right and someone wronged them, guess what their brain is doing? It keeps creating brain noise until they dissolve illusion that somebody did something to them, their brain is producing noise and it`s not set free. They also have fear and guilt based on misperceptions of what happened to them.
It is all about their perceptions, and when they change their perceptions to balance, their mind is cleared. That is why you can take any issue of any event and balance their perceptions and their mind will be cleared and fear of the future and guilt of the past will be dissolved. But as long as they blame something outside themselves cause and effect is separated and void and brain noise created. Brain will do whatever it can to seek the answer to that, to find the balance.
The brain is a love-seeking, balance-seeking, ion-dissolving organism. All this can be summarized in quotation:
“No therapy will ever be complete until cause equals effect in space-time”